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Pepsea and I have to share some special stories with you that happened
when we were out shopping around town. The first story started at
Meijer's when we were shopping. I noticed a little girl about 11 years
old in a wheelchair stroller. Her Mom was pushing her and I noticed the
girl's eye landed on Pepsea. I asked the Mom if her daughter would like
to see Pepsea and she said "yes that would be wonderful." Upon the girl
reaching for Pepsea she tried to kiss him and then continued to pet him.
She really interacted nicely with the dog despite what the Mom said
"about her daughter normally getting aggressive with dogs." This
interaction was positive and beautiful as the girl smiled and she hadn't
smiled in a long time. She tried to vocalize as well. It was a special
moment and the Mother of the child was so elated that a great positive
interaction happened but even more so that her child tried to vocalize
and smiled. Her daughter had cerebral palsy or closed head injury. It
was neat to be part of that interaction. It wasn't important that the
child had a closed injury or cerebral palsy but unconditional love
Pepsea gave the girl who had profound needs and made a difference in her
life at that special moment during the interaction. Pepsea was gentle
and easy going around the child and brought out the best of the child's
spirit. Later in the week we were at our favorite hang out Wal-Mart. Their was a
son pushing his Mom in a wheelchair that had had a stroke. She was
drooling and totally not enjoying her outing. Her son was stopped along
the kid's toy isle while his kids were looking at some toys. I asked him
if his Mom would like to see my Dalmatian. He said "Yes, that would be
great." Pepsea went in front of the wheelchair as he normally does
keeping all 4 paws on the ground and approached her. She started to
vocalize her words "nice doggie, nice doggie." Then she started to reach
with both arms and tried to pet him and she did wonderfully in her
reaching and petting him even the paralyzed arm was moving some to try
to hug Pepsea. Pepsea just let her do her thing and laid his head on her
lap for a few minutes while she petted him moving closer for her to
reach him on his shoulders. That too was a special moment we enjoyed
together.
Another time we were out wheeling around our subdivision when I came
across a gentlemen in a power wheelchair which I knew had a service dog.
He was outside without his service dog which I thought was odd. So I
asked where his service dog was, as I hadn't seen it around lately. He
told me it had died and was from paws with a cause. My heart just sank.
I asked him if he wanted to see my service dog that I'm training for
myself. Now this gentlemen had a high tech chair that reclined back
which Pepsea never had experienced that sort of wheelchair before. So I
let him get use to the chair first and during my conversation found out
the gentlemen had a brain tumor and radiation damaged his spine and
placed him in a wheelchair as a high quad. His physical therapist is
coming to his home and he is able to move some in his arms. Pepsea got
close to his wheelchair and he tried to move his arm down to pet him. I
assisted in his arm coming down to pet Pepsea so he wouldn't get hurt by
it falling down to reach Pepsea as he stood their since he was up rather
high in his wheelchair. He really enjoyed that interaction with Pepsea.
He told me his family is allergic to dogs so he can't get another
service dog and he wishes he could get another service dog to help him
out, he really misses that interaction and help. I told him Paws is
training Standard Poodles for this reason or labadoodles for this to
prevent people from having allergy to service dogs. I also provided the
name of my trainer and her program if he wanted to get perhaps a
Standard Poodle to train or have trained for his needs. He was going to
check into it and see if that would work with his family that has
allergies to dogs. It had been almost 6 months since his dog had passed
over the bridge I could tell he was elated to have the interaction with
another dog. I was so grateful that I took the time to allow this
interaction and gave him something to pet where I'm sure he had missed
petting his former service dog.
Often times when we are out in Public we will get stopped by Mothers or
Father's that have kids that have cerebral palsy or autism and they want
to know about my service dog and are thinking of getting a service dog
to assist their child. One thing I didn't realize is how many children
in our area have cerebral palsy and autism. I discovered that there is
a school in the area for special needs children but their main focus is
cerebral palsy and autism. I'm looking forward to going to the school
and talking about service dogs and hoping my trainer will join me in
showing what service dogs can do to help the child with cerebral palsy.
While many programs fail to train dogs for kids that are handicap as
they feel they wouldn't benefit, and some programs place age limits on
when a child is old enough for a dog. My feeling is anyone who is
handicap should have an opportunity for a service dog regardless of age
as long as someone is living with them that can get the dog to a vet if
it becomes sick and the child has a good interaction with the animal. I
know my trainer had trained a black lab for a family with children with
special needs. The dog does wonderfully for the children and tends to
all of them. It is just amazing. Last night is a classic example of a
Mom at Kroger's talking to me about her daughter who has cerebral palsy,
blind, deaf, and not able to talk. Her daughter had a yellow lab for 13
years and it just passed away and was her service dog. She now has a
Saint Bernard as her service dog. She told me that the Saint Bernard
will watch her daughter for her. While she is outside working in the
garden and her daughter is playing and if her daughter strays toward
the road or out of the yard the Saint Bernard will go and prevent her
from leaving the yard and guide her back into the yard. She is amazed
that the Saint Bernard is so gentle and will keep a close eye on her
child for her and keeping her free of harm being blind and deaf.
One thing I realized during each of these interactions is how wonderful
my liver and white Dalmatian Pepsea interacts with people and people
with special needs. While this isn't service dog duties it clearly falls
under therapy work that Pepsea loves to take the opportunity to do when
he sees someone in a wheelchair, walker, or handicap when we are working
out in public. He seeks those people out in need and is happy just to
leave them pet him and talk to him. Often times it might be someone just
missing their dog that passed away, or some elderly person that is
wanting a little TLC, or some Mom or Father that is pleased to get to
see a service dog in action. While Pepsea and I have become advocates
for service dogs and for those that are disabled, it has been a very
rewarding experience for both of us and a path I'm glad I'm on despite
my spinal injury and the pain it causes me every day. Those interactions
and guidance to various people about wanting or needing a service dog
make it all worth while.
Therapy work is another area of his life we are considering doing as
well since he is so gifted in that area. Pepsea believes in treating the
whole person and not just the task if they happen to drop something on
the floor and can't pick it up, or get the door open, but to nurture
their spirit as well and boost their spirit for that day. It is amazing
the gift Pepsea truly has and is providing to many people every day when working
out in public or at home.
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Photo Credit: Pepsea hung out at the
hospital for 10 days while my Dad fought for
his life after a liter of fluid collected
around the heart and straggled it off. When
Pepsea would visit my Dad it would help
regulate my Dad's heart rate out of abnormal
heart rhythms. This is a candid moment of
Pepsea providing a little TLC to my Dad.
Pepsea was a natural at stepping over all
the many IV poles, lines, and tubes coming
from my Dad after his heart surgery. Now
when we go back to visit my Dad's Physicians
at appointments many of the staff hear
Pepsea is on the grounds the staff will take
a break to come talk to him, hoping to grab
a pet or two from him to settle down their
stressful day. |
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